We are inviting only certain children, which some people might frown upon.. but direct/immeditae family's children are invited, but extened family's (cousin's, old friends, etc) children are not. If they have a particular circumstance going on we might be flexible.. We just cannot accomodate a million kids.
On the RSVP, we have a place for guests to write their meal choice, being chicken, beef, or veg. For the kids that do attend, we do have a children's meal available. Should we put that down as an option on the RSVP? or should we leave it out and address the families whose kids are invited personally, such as over the phone?