Just needing a place where no one knows me to vent. My wedding is in July; last night my mom calls to tell me that her and her (half ass) fiancé have finally set their date; for AUGUST! Like not even 30 days after mine! First and foremost I do not like her fiancé and their relationship is not a healthy one. Second they have been dating like 10 years what is the all of a sudden rush? She lives in CA and I live in SC so I would have to fly out there and take time off work. But the kicker is I am starting a new job and only have enough time for my own wedding and honeymoon. I have no vacation time to fly to CA for a THURSDAY wedding. I feel like she is being inconsiderate of my wedding. Now while I am in the crunch of my wedding planning the time when I need my mom to be there the most, she is now planning her wedding.
I say she stole the spotlight again because she worked at my high school and even went to my senior prom, in one of my dresses! I shared those experiences with her I sort of wanted to act like a Mom not a peer during this wedding stuff.
I know I am being a little selfish, but I am just hurt.
Thanks for the vent.