My parents raised us until I was about 12 then he started drinking, and being a less than desirable husband and father to my mom and us. Mom raised us from there and has been there for the majority of my life. In the last 2 or 3 years I've gotten closer to my dad. He is in a serious relationship and so is my mom. Moms BF wants to help with the wedding so does my dad. GREAT... but here is the thing... My parents HATE eachother. like cats and dogs and not the cute ones. Mom is insisting to walk me down, Dad wants to, moms BF wants to... I am close to all of them. Was going to ask my grandpa since he is my absolute favorite person on this planet but he has advancing alzheimers and isnt in the mind set. please help me work this out!