I threw a Halloween/Housewarming Party in October and invited most people that we know which is when FI proposed to me.
I didn't know he was going to propose to me. His mother invited people in her family that we don't really have a relationship and her friends telling them he was going to propose and that it was our engagement party.
A few of these people are her friends that we have no intention of inviting to our wedding. She seems to think that because they were present for the engagement party, that they should be invited. I keep bean dipping her but is she right etiquette wise?
I cut 8 people from my list to avoid fighting with her and have er best friend (couple) as a courtesy, and 3 sets of great aunts and uncles we don't know as a courtesy (all people she invited to our party). Isn't that sufficient?