Just wondering how this works..especially regarding something old and something borrowed?
I woulld love to incorporate something from my aunts on my wedding day because they are special to me (one is very sick and can't come to wedding when she originally had a formal role in my wedding, the other is deceased). I would love to maybe ask their daughters if they have anything I can use, but wasn't sure if that is poor etiquette? I would obviously return whatever heirloom they may be able to lend..but wasn't sure if it was rude of me to even ask//
Thoughts?
How do brides go about sticking to this tradition? Do they ask themselves for stuff, or just hope people offer those various items?