I'm recently engaged and starting the planning process. I've asked three of my younger cousins (ages 14, and 11) to be junior bridesmaids in my wedding. We're very close and my fiance and I would love to have them there. Now that we're beginning the planning process, we are beginning to see how much things are actually going to cost. I feel awful about unasking them, as we're close and they're excited but it would save a lot of money on flowers and gifts if we had less people in the bridal party. I know I should have waited before asking them...
What do you guys think? Is it improper to unask them? The one thing that we could say is that a lot of the groomsmen are a lot older than them, so we don't want anyone to be uncomfortable but I still feel awful because I don't want them to be hurt