My step mother is threatening not to attend my wedding because she cannot find a dress within my constraints. These are my constraints:
1. Bridesmaids are in plum, so no plum.
2. My mother is in a dark teal and FH mother is in Navy, so avoid those
3. I don't think key females in our wedding should be in black, for a july wedding
She has bought or borrowed a pewter, and ice blue and a coral dress, but says none of them are right.
I know they all fit her or need minor alterations and I have put her in contact with a seamstress that is very cheap.
I know she really wants to wear this black dress that is almost 15 years old (she bought it to wear to a nephews wedding) It is a basic black tank dress, very plain and she wore it to my sisters wedding 6 years ago.
She has been a MOB and MOG before. She has been asking me since we got engaged what color everyone is wearing. Am I wrong for giving these guidelines that she has asked for?
She is also mad that I want my Dad AND Mom to walk me down the aisle.