So, I know that isn't the right phrase so what I want to say, but it's the best that I could come up with.
I'm kind of intentionally making people upset. I know that probably isn't nice, or proper, but I think i'm okay with it. I recently referenced an article I read about an unplugged wedding, where the bride and groom ask their guests not to use their phone during a portion of the wedding, such as the ceremony. I had said I didn't like the ruse of "we want you to be fully present" and that's not what I'm about. People can use their phones or electronic devices as they wish, and I am not going to tell grown adults not do. What I DO have a problem with, however, is people using these electronic devices to stand in the aisle when the bride is walking down it, or walking up to the alter when the bride and groom are about the kiss, just to snap a camera pic.
Now, FI's family are the biggest offenders of this, which is exactly why I brought it up. I wasn't confrontational, I didn't name names and lay blame on anyone. I just said I think it ruins important moments that the professional photographer should be capturing. A recent wedding we went to had both of the examples I already mentioned, as well as a bunch more, that just made me shake my head. Why don't people realize they should be in their seats, not obstructing pictures.
FI's family is also having a fit over this, but I'm just sitting back and not stressing it. They basically think I am being unreasonable and I should be HONORED (I am really starting to hate this word) that people want to take my picture. I know I have more than enough time before the wedding that I shouldn't be worried about potential photo bombers, but I figured since we just went to that wedding and started to look at the professional photos, it was a convenient time to bring it up. Maybe after 10 months of gossiping about my scandalous remark, they might realize I don't want them standing in the aisle.