The bride wants my little girl to be the flower girl in her wedding. I haven't told my daughter yet. She's a little younger than the groom's two sisters, who are 10 and almost 13. Though I'm honored, I'm wondering how his sisters will feel about this. I know they are a close family. My daughter has been in a couple of friend's weddings already, but I don't think they have ever had that honor. I think the couple should have his younger sisters, instead, even if older than may be traditional for flower girls. I'm a friend and helping with the wedding, so I'm in on a lot of the talk; I don't think they have plans to include these girls in the wedding. It's sad because they are not only forming a new extended family, but these are his own sisters. I don't want to have my daughter's participation be a source of resentment for these sweet girls. Twenty years from now, I think it will be more important for the sisters to have been part of this wedding than for the bride to have had the perfect age flower girl.