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annakb8 · February 2012

Morning!

I have a diamond ring but I still don't think it fits any of those descriptions.

annakb8 · February 2012

I have no idea what the cut is Cfas. I guess the diamonds are round though. Another reminder that I really need to get this thing appraised.

kellyjellybelly · February 2012

hi all! i'm off today, so just getting a slow start to the morning. Nothing too exciting going on over here.

Birdie1483 · February 2012

They're doing ok ski. He just finished his immunosuppressant and steroid. They don't look nearly as red as they used to, but he's been biting at them a bit. I'm still worried, but I'm trying to think positive thoughts.

baystateapple · February 2012

Thanks, all.

I ended up going home sick. H and I had an argument last night and we had another one this morning. He dropped the bomb on me in counseling last night that he wants us to move up to MA ASAP -- something we've been talking about for years as a future thing. Right now I have a good job that I like, I'm in grad school, H is putting away serious money at the jobs that he's working at and we have no reason to move to MA except that he "wants to."

Plus after all the crap that happened in September, he's STILL talking to this chick (who also conveniently lives in MA). The thought of giving up my job and my life and my school down here to go up there and then subsequently get divorced because she lives even closer and and he won't stop being friends with her is making me physically ill. But I came in guns blazing this morning when I came home from work and he was all kinds of not pleased to be fighting about this first thing in the morning. So nothing got resolved. And I still feel terrible. Up until this point we'd been steadily getting better, since last night I feel like we've taken a downswing for the worst.

(Sorry for hijacking the morning thread. It's going to work itself out, I just don't know how or how soon)

ski2play · February 2012

I am glad Birdie, it is so frustrating when they chew on their paws. My golden does that with one paw occasionally. He also will rub the black off his nose (Yikers) and it gets pink when he tries to hide a bone in the garage.

Hello dog, you have 3 acres of yard and you need to hide it in the cement floor garage.

annakb8 · February 2012

Wow, Bay. I'm sorry. There is no reason for you to move to MA right now when you have so much going for you in CT. And I can't believe he is still talking to that whore.

kellyjellybelly · February 2012

That really sucks Bay.

dumdumfroggie · February 2012

Ugh Bay, I'm sorry. I hope you get that resolved soon.

sleblanc72 · February 2012

Oh Bay I'm so sorry. I agree with Anna that there's no reason for you to go to MA right now where you have a lot of good things going on in CT. I also can't believe he's talking to her.

annakb8 · February 2012

Rach, there is my ring. Anyway, the ering belonged to H's great grandmother who got married in 1910.

Edited to not be huge.

adamar15 · February 2012

What the eff, Bay. I do not understand why he thinks it's ok to still talk to her.

mkgrover · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_hi-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b00481ed-ebfa-45d8-aba3-02bfba4c0ff8Post:3a517be6-98e2-4685-887e-caee6378142b">Re: Hi!</a>:
[QUOTE]Wow, Bay. I'm sorry. There is no reason for you to move to MA right now when you have so much going for you in CT. And I can't believe he is still talking to that whore.
Posted by annakb8[/QUOTE]

<div>This exactly, Bay, and times 1000.</div>

sparent2010 · February 2012

Oh Bay that is awful I am sorry

Lots of hugs-

Ski my dog tries to hide it behind the computer.

ski2play · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_hi-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:b00481ed-ebfa-45d8-aba3-02bfba4c0ff8Post:3a517be6-98e2-4685-887e-caee6378142b">Re: Hi!</a>:
[QUOTE]Wow, Bay. I'm sorry. There is no reason for you to move to MA right now when you have so much going for you in CT. And I can't believe he is still talking to that whore.
Posted by annakb8[/QUOTE]

What Anna said X1000 billiion. You are such a great person!

ETA: Grover you are fast!

Stackeye210 · February 2012

Bay your husband is selfish and only thinking of himself right now.

annakb8 · February 2012

And I know I have a skewed perspective on this because I live pretty far away from friends and family, but why the rush to move to MA? I mean it's RIGHT THERE isn't it? Can't you guys visit often? Don't you see his family and friends on a regular basis?

I mean, I'm dying to move home to Florida, so I get it, but for me home is really far away. I can't just pop over for a night or a weekend. I have to buy plane tickets and find someone to feed my cats and stuff. So I guess this is my way of saying I don't have much sympathy for him.

kellyjellybelly · February 2012

Anna I can't see your pic for some reason, but I love vintage rings. I actually had my grandmothers original wedding ring from the late 40's. It was gorgeous - art deco cut. AND then I LOST it. I'm an asshole. I've been trying to find one very similar on etsy.

baystateapple · February 2012

Stacks, that's how he's been for awhile now.

Anna, I think the catalyst this time was because his mom (MIL) had surgery two days ago and nobody told us. He was really upset and he's been harping on that ever since. It wasn't an emergency, it was scheduled and she didn't tell him. He feels isolated from his family. Having one car doesn't help. But he doesn't seem to understand that, hey, I have family HERE, and whichever way we go, one of us is going to be away from their friends and family. The difference is that right now, we both have jobs and a good apartment HERE. Not up there.

mkgrover · February 2012

Ski, I must have hit refresh at just the right time. I'm usually late to the game.

annakb8 · February 2012

I can understand getting upset about that, but that has everything to do with his mom not communicating, not with where he lives. I'm sorry he isn't thinking clearly about this.

Birdie1483 · February 2012

Ski, I know some dogs are paw biters. I'm mostly just worried it's from a food allergy. That would really suck.

annakb8 · February 2012

I fixed the picture, in case anyone wants to go back and look.

Rach, do you have pics of your ring?

[Deleted User] · February 2012

Honestly bay, I'd refuse to move unless he cuts off all contact with that whore. Him not seeing how his relationship with her is ruining your marriage will only cause an even deeper blindness when he is that close to her. She won't give up, so it's on him and unless he's willing to do that for you, then you shouldn't uproot your life for him.

I don't know the solution here, so all I can say is that I wish you the best.

kellyjellybelly · February 2012

Have you tried raw Birdie? I know it's expensive.

Rosie109 · February 2012

And the cvntbitch that came in between your marriage is there as well.

I am sorry bay. Your H pisses me off. I thought he had agreed to cut off communication with her? I would absolutely NOT want to move to MA if that means moving closer to her. How can he not see how that makes you feel?

His mother having surgery or not has nothing to do with it in my eyes. That is on his mom to use the telephone, not on you to change your life RIGHT NOW.

Fvck that noise bay.

kellyjellybelly · February 2012

Super pretty Anna!

sleblanc72 · February 2012

Anna I love your ring!

Bay I agree with everything Sesh said, moving would make things worse then they already are.

Stackeye210 · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_hi-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b00481ed-ebfa-45d8-aba3-02bfba4c0ff8Post:59793a39-2202-4339-9019-0c3a0172d40a">Re: Hi!</a>:
[QUOTE]Stacks, that's how he's been for awhile now. Anna, I think the catalyst this time was because his mom (MIL) had surgery two days ago and nobody told us. He was really upset and he's been harping on that ever since. It wasn't an emergency, it was scheduled and she didn't tell him. He feels isolated from his family. <strong> Having one car doesn't help. </strong> But he doesn't seem to understand that, hey, I have family HERE, and whichever way we go, one of us is going to be away from their friends and family. The difference is that right now, we both have jobs and a good apartment HERE. Not up there.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>And once again didn't he cause this bind? Because he stole money from you guys? He's so busy playing victim he doesn't see why nobody tells him anything. He has you feeling like you're part of the issue and you just aren't. He's now using the counselor against you and as a way to drop bombs that you aren't "supposed" to flip out about. He's being a fuucking coward. </div><div>
</div><div>Does he call his family on the regular? My guess would be no, or he wouldn't feel isolated. If he calls them every single day, multiple times a day, then maybe his argument holds some weight b/c he would be obviously homesick. But he seems too selfish to call anyone everyday except is stupid little slore biitch b/c she is sugar coating his feelings and the world to him.</div><div>
</div><div>REAL LIFE IS NOT SUGAR COATED, and real life doesn't get lived by playing victim. </div><div>
</div><div>I'm sorry. I'm getting off the internet for the rest of the day. I'm in a bad fuucking mood and Mr Bay is ridiculous. </div>

FutureMrsFezz · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_hi-34?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:b00481ed-ebfa-45d8-aba3-02bfba4c0ff8Post:a401f92e-693b-4736-a315-ab69b946d408">Re: Hi!</a>:
[QUOTE]And the cvntbitch that came in between your marriage is there as well. I am sorry bay. Your H pisses me off. I thought he had agreed to cut off communication with her? I would absolutely NOT want to move to MA if that means moving closer to her. How can he not see how that makes you feel? His mother having surgery or not has nothing to do with it in my eyes. That is on his mom to use the telephone, not on you to change your life RIGHT NOW. Fvck that noise bay.
Posted by Rosie109[/QUOTE]
This.

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