We only want a small wedding, just us two. Abroad where my husband-to-be proposed.
I've told my mum (and no one else) and shes devestated, even offering (threatening) to fly out there to be with us.
She says its important that shes at the ceremony.
We were happy to host a big party before we went to celebrate our union for friends and family but really dont want the whole 'wedding' thing.
Should we just go to a registary office with my mum to make her happy or do it at home, even though its not what we really want???
BUT I can't get married carefree abroad if I know its upset my mum.
I daren't tell the rest of my family.
We've looked around venues etc but it just doesnt seem to be for us. theres nothing we like and it all seems like it takes away from it being just us, in love and getting married.