So of course Pintrest would mean the bankruptcy of many people if they did all of the cool/cute things on there haha. I have seen a lot of pins about giving your girl friends a little gift when you ask them to be your BMs. I don't know if I want to do this or not. I was debating on doing something small for each of them, but then I thought about just writing each of them a letter about why they are important to me, how much their friendship means to me, and at the end of it asking them to be my BM. What are your opinions about this?