I was told it is rude to put formal attire in with the invitation.
We want people to come dressed nicely. Like dress shirt, and slacks. Nice dresses
We most certainly dont want it to seem like we want them in tuxes and ballgowns
We just want it a little dressy. We went to a few weddings over the past year and one big trend is a big group of FH(that means future husband right?) show up in jeans and flannel shirts. We dont care if his uncle does cause hes older its his style we get it. But all the cousins. We dont want to see jeans.
Now I dont know if this is rude. Its not like I will kick anyone out if they dont dress a certain way. We will just deal with it. But is it OKAY to put "Formal attire requested" on the invites?
Or is it rude?