Well my best friend is supposed to be a BM but back in June she missed my sons birthday party after promising she would make it then telling me around the time his party started she would not be coming. Well then a few weeks ago I asked her to come with me to Vegas for my scouting trip, she said yes she would go for sure so just a couple days after I book the room she tells me she can't go. Exactly 1 week before she tells me. Also I booked my room through price line and is non refundable. I really wanted her to be in my wedding but this girl has a history of being unreliable. Plus she lives 2 hours away and I feel like I just can't depend on her at all. After she canceled on me last night I'm really thinking of taking out of the wedding party.
UPDATE **
well my best friend has been texting me since last weekend but I hadn't replied until she text me today. I let her know that we think its best if she wasn't in the wedding party. Because of her issues with coming out here the past 3x. I told her I understand if she is upset by the decision but she is more then welcome to come to the wedding. She said it wasn't a problem coming out here but that's when I refreshed her memory on the dates she's missed. I told her I go for my 1st fitting in a couple weeks and we haven't even began to look at dresses since she's cancelled on us twice.