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it's anonymous vent time!

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  • @hmonkey

    But I love that goddamn owl pitcher and the owl mugs. 
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  • Thank you, oh thank you so much for ignoring the memoranda I drafted for over a month, then review both, give me half-assed feedback on how I should restructure them, and demand both be done by the following Friday. I got more feedback on how to structure them from the samples over boss sent than from you. It's not my fault over boss got on your ass (I think) about how you were supposed to give me feedback and you haven't, but you think it's perfectly acceptable to give me shit for something you did.

    Thank you and over boss so much for demanding I get a memo done in a week containing a federal holiday, and when I proceed to get it in on time and state I look forward to your feedback, you both proceed to ignore it for a month. In fact, you don't even look at it to discuss and restructure until after I BRING IT UP that I don't know how you want me to restructure as I haven't heard a DAMN PEEP about it.  Then when we meet half way through the day, you basically tell me I have to start from scratch, and mid afternoon, inform me you want a) everything redrafted and b) summaries of everything I'm using/looking at in drafting, preferably by COB the next day, and implying I'm an idiot and don't know wtf I'm doing- NEWS FLASH- I'm in the junior position because I'm not supposed to know exactly how all this is supposed to be done, and you are supposed to give me TIMELY guidance! How am I supposed to get this shit done the way you want and covering everything you want in less than 48 hrs? I do have to sleep on occasion, and I am not paid enough to sleep in my clothes and drool at my office desk.

    I've been in the office since 6:30 am at a place where work day normally starts at 8 just to try and get this shit done. Done venting, back to drafting, any good vibes sent my way are much appreciated.

  • If one more person insults my education solely based on the fact that I look like a high schooler, please kindly read on my Facebook profile you looked up and read that I have an effing master's degree.

    I worked hard for that when education is not valued back home. Hard work is. And that's how I got where I am: I worked full time (2+ part time jobs) during the school year, sometimes 2 full time jobs during the summer and mommy and daddy didn't help me at all!

    I'm sure that my mom would if she could, and my dad is dead. So if one more person wants to infer that I'm a dady's girl because I'm effing HAPPY with my life and my life choices, please take a flying leap off a tall bridge out of my life.

    Everything isn't perfect, including myself, but it doesn't take an idiot to google the facts. Looks are deceiving and just because I look like a dumb little girl doesn't mean I can't kick your ass or match you intellectually.

    So much for not having a Napoleon complex.
  • Really, you think I'm so poorly dressed or buck-toothed that the security guard might try to shoot me for walking through the parking garage of your fancy office?  You really need to introduce me as you hillbilly relation in order to spare my life?  Really?
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    I just a friendly gal looking for options.

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  • I get why you think I'm taking over.  It's b/c you weren't doing anything and I am.  So, I'm sure it DOES feel like I'm taking over.  B/c, effectively, I am.  So far, people are happy about it, so let me take over, let me give you the credit (like I've been doing) and STFU, Ho Sit Down card and enjoy the spotlight while being lazy.
  • Exactly what do you think that yelling at me will accomplish?  Do you think that throwing a temper tantrum is going to get people to clean up after you?  Perhaps if you checked your voice mail or the documents in your inbox, you'd know exactly what's going on.  You can't intimidate me and I won't take the blame for you not doing your job, so I'm reporting you.  I hope you lose your job because you are incompetent and have lost your mind.  
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    I grit my teeth when you shorten two of my kid's names.  I WILL speak up EVERY time you call my boy Maxi. 

    And really, why shorten two and lengthen one?

  • every time you throw up your hands, laugh and say, "that's just the way it is!" i want to slap your teeth down your throat.

    the ONLY reason this is happening is because of your stupid, arrogant, asinine choices. if you had just asked for help or stopped to think about the consequences, we wouldn't be in this mess. or actually -- you would not have left this mess for me to clean up.
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  • What on earth would make you think it's okay to bring your two teenage daughters or your brother or your nieces or some random date to my wedding?!? Do not RSVP for 3 or 4 when I only invited you!....Ok, I do feel better now. :)
  • So, let's see.  I made a sign-in sheet, I bought nametags, I bought sharpies and pen, I made the agenda and e-mail the clean version as well as an agenda with every single little farking detail you could possible need to say to the group.  None of which I have any position to be doing so.

    You just asked me why I didn't get one thing done.  Which is insulting enough.  BUT...to ask after I had already told you that I didn't get it done b/c I was burning out and needed to take a break?  Bugger off.

  • So you stirred up all this trouble only to GBCK a few years later?!?!? Why didn't you just leave in the first place. We lost good friends because of you!!!!

    Now I totally believe everything that "Troll" said about you!
  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    So you stirred up all this trouble only to GBCK a few years later?!?!? Why didn't you just leave in the first place. We lost good friends because of you!!!! Now I totally believe everything that "Troll" said about you!

    I wish this one wasn't anonymous.
  • Please dear God make the emails stop.  If you have something to say to one person, say it to them.  Don't send an email to the entire department.  WE DO NOT CARE and you're cluttering up my inbox. 

    Why, why, why do you stay with your lazy-ass-doesn't-want-to-work-smokes-pot-all-day husband?  WHY DID YOU GET KU'D BY HIM AGAIN AND ON PURPOSE?!  DTMFA, girl.

    This is a judgment, but seriously...It's not a good idea to use social media to bait your STBXH.  It makes you look crazy.  And also, you say you want to stay with him and that's not going to help. He's not going to withdraw the paper when you do shit like that.
  • WzzWzz member
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    coward.
  • Y'all know I'm slow.^^^^^^^^^^
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  • WzzWzz member
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    i'm ammending my anon vent.

     

    coward. get over it. get over yourself. be an adult. now back to work!

  • The hashtags over text are making me giggle as week+ later.
  • WzzWzz member
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    edited August 2013

    someone who has no life outside of the knot.

     

    aka - HMONKEY

  • I HAVE ENOUGH OF A LIFE AND ENOUGH GAS IN THE TANK TO FIND YOU, WZ.
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  • WzzWzz member
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    i doubt it. i mean, just look at yourself!
  • I'm trying to think of who it could be, but I lost track of the knut controversies after the big blowups over Elfstergate and Roses4everywhore and others on AFB(wait, was that her real name or was that what everyone called her?) and all that stuff. 
  • WzzWzz member
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    edited August 2013

    Varuna, that is because you (and most everyone else) have a life and don't need to keep track of the knot at all times. i would think that if you lost any friends here, they were never your real friends. most people keep in touch outside of TK even if they don't post anymore. heck, i still text and email former knotties from time to time. and if you don't have any IRL friends, then, well, you need to look at your life and wonder why.

     

    (ETA - also, someone GBCK'd "YEARS" later? how long is someone supposed to stay posting on the knot anyway?)

  • Ooh, looks like a good day to be working from home.

    You fucking stink. Still. Despite being talked to and written up and MOVED to spare everyone else. I don't think you realize that your job is on the line.


  • Wzz said:

    i'm ammending my anon vent.

     

    coward. get over it. get over yourself. be an adult. now back to work!

    How do you know I was talking about you? Looks like someone has a guilty conscience.

  • WzzWzz member
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    edited August 2013
    i never said you were talking about me - i never GBCK'd. interesting assumption on your part, 5 post newb.
  • Wzz said:

    (ETA - also, someone GBCK'd "YEARS" later? how long is someone supposed to stay posting on the knot anyway?)

    You ask this of us?  I added up how long I've been here the other day and decided to stop thinking about it.
  • Yes, I've been here a minute myself.

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  • WzzWzz member
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    but if you GBCK next week, i doubt anyone will wonder if it is because of someone who didn't appreciate your nipple thunder from years ago. if bmom suddenly disappears, no one is going to say that the meegs got under her skin. adurr.
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