Hello all! Thanks first off for your input. I have one main question and a few others as well.
My FI and I have decided on a small wedding. 11 guests, no significant others unless already married, no plans on budging on this. I've already asked my MOH if this was okay with her before we even sent out official invites. I then let my other non married guests know this as well. They were way cool about it. We are trying to keep down costs, as we just found out we are pregnant, but do not want to completely be cheap. We have a $2000 budget for everything, except the wine which is from my personal stock. Also, I have never wanted a big wedding, but have decided to invite the people who are important to me and my FI. Since my FI and I have been together for years I am quite sure that certain friends and family will be put out by not being invited. How do I inform my family and friends that it is not meant to be a slight?
As for our wedding plans: Halloween Morning, courthouse steps, rain or shine, having a friend deputized to perform the ceremony, have requested Cocktail to dressy casual, no wedding photographer, luncheon to be followed at a restaurant my FI and I have enjoyed. I will choose appetizers, and have guests order off the menu. I will provide the bubbles and red wine, and will be having cupcakes & small cake in several flavors.