My close friend said yes to being in my wedding when I asked her after I got engaged. She is a single mom and I offered to buy her dress. When we went dress shopping she was annoyed and not cooperative. With the help of my MOH I brushed that off. We picked a dress we liked and ordered it. Because she was not willing to try stuff on at the dress shop, we got the wrong size. She assured me she would fit into it. Now it has been two months since the dress came in and when I asked her whether or not it fit her response was that she would try it on two weeks before the wedding. I know she doesn't have money for alterations and either do I. I have a feeling that she is uncomfortable with being a bridesmaid as she doesn't usually wear dresses and I have never seen her in heels. What I want to know is how to I discuss this with her? I have given her an "out" twice now and she hasn't taken it. The last thing I want to do is hurt my friend's feelings but forcing her into a dress that is too small, asking her to wear heels, do her hair and makeup for my special day just seems like it is asking a lot of her. I am not having any other issues with the girls like this and I really don't need the stress of her being uncooperative.