Wedding Registry: Can We Include Items for Our Child on Our Wedding Registry?
Q.
My
fiance and I have a son. We are buying a house shortly after the
wedding. In addition to wedding gifts, is it okay to register for items
for our son's room?
A.
I
don't believe you are breaking any rules of etiquette by registering
for some gifts for your son's room. Think of it this way: The whole idea
behind registering is that friends and family are helping you and your
new spouse to build your first home together. Since your son is an
integral part of your life, I don't see why you can't register for
things to fill his part of your home as well. Remember also that putting
things on your registry is not forcing people to buy them; it is merely
saying, "Here are some ideas for what we most need." Just keep in mind
that your wedding, and the subsequent gifts you receive, are meant to
celebrate your union with your fiance. As such, a registry full of baby
furniture may put some people off, so make sure there are plenty of
other items available. This way, if someone feels uncomfortable
purchasing something for your son's room, they can simply select a more
traditional gift.
I was looking though to FAQ's and this is how the "resident expert" responded. What's everyones thoughts?