Am new to TK, (live in NZ, but had to select Hawaii as its the closest to me) Have been trying to figure out how to work my vows to my FH, and Think I have come up with the ideal wording (given the Celebrant agrees). Just to give you some background MY FH has had multiple health issues (Liver transplant at 5yo, kidney failure, heart failure, and had a tumor removed from his pancreas a couple of years back, also had his stomach stop working last year - thankfully it now works again thanks to a brilliant Dr). I proposed to him, and he said yes... Anyway, due to his ongoing health issues, I didn't want to add "til death do us part, or the whole in sickness and in health" parts so here is my wording...
My Vows to Him:
"I love you Michael and I know that you love me, today I commit to making you my husband. Through the pressures of the present and the uncertainties of the future I promise to Love you, and be Faithful to you, and Care for you always, no matter the state of our Health, Finances and Moods. I promise to be open about my feelings, and talk through any issues that may arise or cause conflict in our union. I will be your best friend and appreciate all that we both bring to marriage, and I look forward to finding out more about you. I promise to support you and be a comfort when needed. I chose you to be the one I walk with on this path, no matter what may cross it, for as long as we are both alive."