My fiance and I live on a yacht, and the last thing we need is fine china, but we do need funds to help us continue sailing the world. Many friends and family will not be able to attend the wedding in Italy, but want to give us a wedding gift. I don't know how to go about this with good etiquette? I have looked at the online cash gift registries, but it just doesn't feel right. anyone out there have a suggestion? thanks!