Dear FI and I are getting married next summer. I know men don't get too involved with the planning process, but how many of you ladies have experienced as time goes on, your FI not taking an interest in contributing financially with you. This has been a big worry as it feels like he doesn't have much interest and I don't feel like I know where his interest totally is. He does not wish to do an engagement photo, he does not wish to book any holiday time for a potential honeymoon. I am wondering why he even asked me to marry him at all
It is also his birthday on Tuesday. He has chosen not to spend his birthday with me, but to do something else that could have been planned for another day as he is off on Monday as well. Pretty upset about that and alot of things right now