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so after losing my dad's mom 3 weeks ago

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my mom's mom is now in hospital with heart failure

she's being kept in the mediclinic in my hometown overnight
they'll transfer her by ambulance to the hospital in the next town so they can fit a pacemaker

i just
i don't want to go through this again 
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    katieg520katieg520 member
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    I am so sorry!!!!
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    KytchynWitcheKytchynWitche member
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    thanks katie

    i really don't want to lose my gran and i don't want my mom to lose her either
    i'm a lot closer to her than i ever was to my dad's mom
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    KytchynWitcheKytchynWitche member
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    thanks @alisonmarie658
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    You and your family are in my thoughts.
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    KeptInStitches

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    CokezerofreakCokezerofreak member
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    Oh no, lots of internet hugs to you and your family.
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    God bless you and your family.
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    KytchynWitcheKytchynWitche member
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    edited October 2013
    thanks ladies.

    my mom's on a plane home now, she'll keep me updated as she gets more info.

    ETA: and of course, i'll keep you all updated as i get more info.
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    I know the feeling.  I lost my mom's dad and then my dad's mom 6 months later (I spend Valentine's Day purchasing funeral flowers).  I was equally close to both of them and miss them dearly each day.

    I can't sit here and say that its easy or time will heal it.  But as long as you have a great support system, you will get through it.  I found that talking about it with friends (who weren't sick of hearing about it) helped.  We are here for you!

    Sending positive thoughts and prayers your way!
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    KytchynWitcheKytchynWitche member
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    thanks @50ShadesofMe and i'm sorry for your loss

    no news yet, and i'm hoping that means everything is fine. i don't think my mom would just not call if there was news...
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    KytchynWitcheKytchynWitche member
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    UPDATE: gran is okay. she's having the pacemaker fitted today and will be back home tomorrow.

    but we have also had news that one of my dad's cousins passed away on monday. this has been a bad, bad month for my family.
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    KeptInStitchesKeptInStitches member
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    Uff da. I'm sorry, urbaneca. I hope you and yours find peace.
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    KytchynWitcheKytchynWitche member
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    Thanks @KeptInStitches
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    urbaneca said:
    UPDATE: gran is okay. she's having the pacemaker fitted today and will be back home tomorrow.

    but we have also had news that one of my dad's cousins passed away on monday. this has been a bad, bad month for my family.
    This is great news!  The cardiac devices they have today are so amazing.  My dad had to get a defibrillator a few years ago.  It will jump start his heart if it happens to stop and also acts as a pacemaker to keep a regular heart beat.

    Sorry for the loss in your family.  Keep your head up and vent to us as much as you need <3
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    KytchynWitcheKytchynWitche member
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    UPDATE: gran's surgery went well. she's fine and will be back home today.

    i want to thank all of you lovely ladies for your support. with all my friends and family a minimum of 4 hours away, i'm really grateful to have you to lean on. from the bottom of my heart, thank you.
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