I am in a pickle and not sure how to handle it. My wedding was a few weeks ago and a few members of my family came and acted in a way that I found to be rude and hurtful. My Aunts attended but did not speak with either myself or my Husband, although they spoke with my mother (thier sister). They were there for the ceremony and for the reception were there long enough to eat the main meal and then left. They did not let me know that they were leaving. They did not sign the guest book although they had ample opportunity to do so, and did not even leave a card (let alone a gift). I am at the point of starting my Thank You cards and am not sure how to handle these family members with a Thank You. I feel that they came becase if they didnt it would look bad, not because they wanted to be there to celebrate with me. Any suggestions on how to handle this?