Sorry I am a drive by poster here - I spend most of my time on The Bump these days. Anyway hoping someone could give me some insight since its been awhile that I have been through all this. I am my younger sisters Matron of Honor. I however live out of state from where she wants her bachelorette party to be. No issues as a good girlfriend of hers has offered us her apartment for drinks/food prior to going out and a place for anyone not local to crash. I am about to order the invitations when I think crap - who is the host. I am ordering the invitations, paying for everything, making the plans, etc, but its her house. Is it rude to put me as the host? Should I just delete that line completely and say to RSVP to me. Thanks ladies.