Our music for the reception has been gifted to us by one of FI's closest friends who runs his own sound business. I briefly talked to him about doing song request cards for our guests to use (that I have made) and he is all for it, but wants to make sure that none of the guests feel pressured to drop a tip in the "jar" with the card. (We will be giving him something at the end of the night for all of the amazing things he has done for us) Has anyone been in a similar situations? Any input is welcome