Mostly lurker here....
My cousin is having a baby in January, I have just received a baby shower invitation. This will be the 3rd baby shower for this cousin. I attended as well as brought a gift to the first two. The first was tragically stillborn so I had no issue with the second shower and bringing a second gift. However a 3rd seems excessive. Her son is now about 4 years old and she is having a girl this time around. I have little baby experience, is this the norm? Does the fact that she is having a girl this time warrant another shower is some way? Thank ladies.