I happily agreed to be in a friends wedding even after I had moved cross county. I was actually excited. Now I'm kinda getting anxious. I'm starting to feel a little rubbed the wrong way and I just wanna check to make sure I'm not being an asshat. First she wanted us to have weekly weigh ins. She said I could skype her for mine (I swear I'm not trolling.) Whoever lost the most would get their hair paid for. Then she changed her mind on the bridesmaid dress five times. Today she texted me her new choice and it was so expensive. I'd still have to pay for alterations, shoes, jewelry, hair, car rental, gift, plane tickets and a hotel. I found the dress in a shop next to my house and told her I was going to order it. She said I have to order it from the same shop as the other girls because it may not be in the same dye batch. I just think it would be easier to have it down here for fittings. If it's in another state I won't be able to try it on until the weekend of the wedding. Since it's almost $300 I want it to fit. Her suggestion was to safety pin it if it's too big. I feel annoyed. Should I push the issue? Some of the other girls feel like she's going a little bridezilla with the weight stuff and not asking us about the dress price. One of them is thinking about dropping out of the wedding all together. Anyway I can talk to the Bride without having her freak? Thanks!