so my best friend and i have known each other for like 20 years! i was her MOH. however over the years, we are still really close but dont have the same visions or similarities anymore. i also have 2 sisters. one of which i have been MOH for and the other of which i am not super close with but often i think feels left out of things. i know my sister who i was MOH for would not care if i picked her or someone else and neither would my older sister....hm kind of answering my own question here, but my mom said i should think about asking my other sister. i guess i just am confused now. my bf and i dont have many things in common anymore but i dont want to hurt her. should i just have her be my MOH anyway considering i'm sure my sisters will be heavily involved anyway or do like my mom suggested?? just looking for opinions i guess. thanks!