I have a friend who I have known since the first grade (so over 22 years). When she knew my now fiancee and I were talking about marriage she always talked about how excited she was to be in the wedding party (though never formally asked). When we did get engaged she automatically assumed she was in the wedding party. I contemplated over what to do and decided that it was not worth the fight and potentially losing the friendship (though I do not feel as close to her as I once did) and just let her be in the wedding party.
Well, ever since then she seems to show no interest in the wedding at all. Whenever I bring up something small to discuss (and trust me - I am not one of those brides that talks about her wedding 24/7 and actually told me friends to smack me if I do! lol) she always changes the subject. She also never asks how planning is going and never asks if there is anything she can help with. I am totally loving the wedding planning process (including all my DIY projects) so it's not necessarily that I want or need help, but it would be nice if she were to at least ask every so often.
So what do should I do? Whenever I have tried to talk to her about things in the past she always gets defensive so I don't know if I should go the route of trying to talk to her, or just let her be the way she is....Thoughts? Any advice would be appreciated! Thank you!