NER: I judge...

NYCBruin · November 2013

misssunshine17 said:

HisGirlFriday13 said:

misssunshine17 said:

Thank god! I'm glad someone agrees with me. My mom thinks I'm too bitchy about it. I also don't understand people who feel the need to 'upgrade' items that are perfectly fine.

Oh, I completely understand doing that a little, I'm talking about an overhaul, I suppose. I know a girl who acted like she had nothing but in actuality they lived together for years and had everything the needed. Might not have been high quality but it did the job.

I don't understand why living together matters. If each person was living on their own, arguably there would be even less of a "need" for things since now the couple would have two of everything and could pick the nicer one to "do the job."

misssunshine17 · November 2013

NYCBruin said:

HisGirlFriday13 said:

misssunshine17 said:

Thank god! I'm glad someone agrees with me. My mom thinks I'm too bitchy about it. I also don't understand people who feel the need to 'upgrade' items that are perfectly fine.

Oh, I completely understand doing that a little, I'm talking about an overhaul, I suppose. I know a girl who acted like she had nothing but in actuality they lived together for years and had everything the needed. Might not have been high quality but it did the job.
I don't understand why living together matters. If each person was living on their own, arguably there would be even less of a "need" for things since now the couple would have two of everything and could pick the nicer one to "do the job."

Yeah, I just said living together but I agree for living separately. I guess at the root, I just don't understand registering for things you already have that work perfectly fine. A couple upgrades, sure.. but not a whole kitchen.

ohannabelle · November 2013

I judge people who carry their nasty little dogs into stores. I'm not talking service animals, or even emotional support animals. (Though I am judging people who simply decide to call their pets emotional support animals, without any professional diagnosis or recommendation.) I love dogs. I don't love putting my groceries in a cart that your dog's dirty little ass has been in.

southernbelle0915 · November 2013

ohannabelle said:

I judge people who carry their nasty little dogs into stores. I'm not talking service animals, or even emotional support animals. (Though I am judging people who simply decide to call their pets emotional support animals, without any professional diagnosis or recommendation.) I love dogs. I don't love putting my groceries in a cart that your dog's dirty little ass has been in.

Yes - this. I also judge people who pretend their animal is a service animal so they can take it places they normally can't, keep it in their apartment where the animal isn't allowed, etc. It totally takes away from and discredits people who actually need service animals.

GypsyWife_ · November 2013

I judge this thread and everyone who commented on it. Including myself for typing this. ::rolls eyes::

monkeysip · November 2013

ClimbingBrideNY said:

I judge people that pressure their significant others into proposing. A former friend of mine just got engaged after begging her boyfriend for a year to propose. She actually told me a few months ago that she might as well settle for this guy because the guy she really does love is marrying someone else. Yeah. Good luck with that marriage!

Some girl called into the local radio station saying that her boyfriend hadn't proposed yet, so she told him she was going to go ahead and start planning their wedding, and he better propose before the date came. She'd already booked a venue and was looking at dresses.

Assuming that was real, I feel so bad for that guy. Cut her loose as fast as you can, dude.

Amyzen83 · November 2013

I judge the desperate women who give their poor men ultimatums. If he's not ready to commit either be patient or if you feel like he has you on a string then it's time to cut that string and find someone who is ready for marriage.

rajahmd · November 2013

GypsyWife_ said:
I judge this thread and everyone who commented on it. Including myself for typing this. ::rolls eyes::

Seriously? What a useless post. What was the point of that?

Amyzen83 · November 2013

I know right? We're all just having fun, no need for negativity.

Amyzen83 · November 2013

I've felt the same hurt from longtime friends who initially didn't approve of my fi because he's not a believer. I felt god confirm he was the intended for me and that's all that matters to me.

GypsyWife_ · November 2013

Amyzen83 said:
I know right? We're all just having fun, no need for negativity.

This thread is all about negativity.

NYCBruin · November 2013

GypsyWife_ said:

I know right? We're all just having fun, no need for negativity.
This thread is all about negativity.

There's a difference between commenting on judging things in the abstract in good fun and judging actual people (like you did).

GypsyWife_ · November 2013

NYCBruin said:

GypsyWife_ said:

Amyzen83 said:
I know right? We're all just having fun, no need for negativity.
This thread is all about negativity.

There's a difference between commenting on judging things in the abstract in good fun and judging actual people (like you did).

What?! No its the same. The word people is in multiple posts.

NYCBruin · November 2013

GypsyWife_ said:

GypsyWife_ said:

I know right? We're all just having fun, no need for negativity.
This thread is all about negativity.

There's a difference between commenting on judging things in the abstract in good fun and judging actual people (like you did).
What?! No its the same. The word people is in multiple posts.

People as in people in the abstract. Far different from you coming here and saying "I judge all of YOU" referring to specific people.

misssunshine17 · November 2013

GypsyWife_ said:

I know right? We're all just having fun, no need for negativity.
This thread is all about negativity.

Well I judge you for raining on the parade for no fucking reason. Move along, dear, nothing to see here.

GypsyWife_ · November 2013

Ohhh I'm judging you so hard right now in my mind. @nycbruin. So what.

NYCBruin · November 2013

GypsyWife_ said:

Ohhh I'm judging you so hard right now in my mind. @nycbruin. So what.

I don't understand what your point is.

Why did you "judge" this thread in the first place?

And judge away.

LDay2014 · November 2013

I judge people based on their ability to form a complete and coherent sentence when texting and using social media. The only reputation you have in the media world is the one you create with your fingers.

That is all.

(Okay, that's only the tip of the iceberg, but this isn't the titanic and I don't want to be Judgy McJudgerson)

Continue driving appropriately to the conditions and judging eachother for our judginess

Carry On.

ElcaB · November 2013

I judge people who talk on the phone while they work out at the gym, like when they're on the treadmill or the elliptical. Is it really so important that it can't wait until AFTER your workout?

I also judge people who hold up anything (lines, walking paths, etc.) by texting. It makes me want to knock their phones out of their hands or push them down the stairs they are blocking!

CommitmentCat · November 2013

@ElcaB Yes! Just find a bench, sit down, type your message, then proceed to walk again. It either results in slow walkers, crab walkers, or the stop-go walkers.

PolarBearFitz · November 2013

GypsyWife_ said:

Ohhh I'm judging you so hard right now in my mind. @nycbruin. So what.

CommitmentCat · November 2013

aefitz29 said:

GypsyWife_ said:

Ohhh I'm judging you so hard right now in my mind. @nycbruin. So what.

yes it is "irrelephant". I don't know how judging someone in their mind makes it onto a public forum. That's judging someone out loud. Therefore making the person who finds judging to be negative, a negative judgmental person.

Just saying.

Chipmunk415 · November 2013

I judge people who are not disabled, but use/abuse their disabled relative's/spouse's handicapped plates or tags to get themselves better parking spots.

My dad is a war vet, combat disabled. He has a hang tag. My mother has 3 now former friends who got pissy with her for not using his tag when they were out and about in the car containing the tag. All because they wanted the closest spots. I judge the three ex-friends.

Dad has a high school acquaintance who is in good health physically. Her husband has a handicapped tag available for his use due to a medical condition. Said acquaintance wanted to use the tag for her convenience when her hubby wasn't with her, to get better parking spots. The one time she did it with my mom, mom insisted they park elsewhere. I judge the acquaintance.

If you need the tag, I have no problem with it. If your relative needs the tag and spot, no issue. I judge when you abuse it.

aurorajanette · November 2013

Chipmunk415 said:

I judge people who are not disabled, but use/abuse their disabled relative's/spouse's handicapped plates or tags to get themselves better parking spots.

My dad is a war vet, combat disabled. He has a hang tag. My mother has 3 now former friends who got pissy with her for not using his tag when they were out and about in the car containing the tag. All because they wanted the closest spots. I judge the three ex-friends.

Dad has a high school acquaintance who is in good health physically. Her husband has a handicapped tag available for his use due to a medical condition. Said acquaintance wanted to use the tag for her convenience when her hubby wasn't with her, to get better parking spots. The one time she did it with my mom, mom insisted they park elsewhere. I judge the acquaintance.

If you need the tag, I have no problem with it. If your relative needs the tag and spot, no issue. I judge when you abuse it.

This, so much. I work in a nursing home and many of our resident's family members have gotten the tags for when their parents are in the car, but use them when they are alone as well. Many of our visitors who are able bodied park in the accessible parking spots, so many of our resident's spouses who have actual disabilities are unable to find spot.

Also, as PP's said about friends who judge Atheists. I am an Atheist, as is my FI. We don't go around telling people what to believe or not believe. We keep our lack of belief to ourselves. So many people have just starting yelling at me for no reason when they ask me for my religion and I say I'm not religious. And over half of the people say, "you MUST believe in SOMETHING!" I just smile and shake my head, but seriously why do people think that's okay?

PolarBearFitz · November 2013

CommitmentCat said:

aefitz29 said:

GypsyWife_ said:

Ohhh I'm judging you so hard right now in my mind. @nycbruin. So what.

yes it is "irrelephant". I don't know how judging someone in their mind makes it onto a public forum. That's judging someone out loud. Therefore making the person who finds judging to be negative, a negative judgmental person.

Just saying.

*high five* because I agree with all you just stated so wonderfully.

natswild · November 2013

I judge some of my coworkers, when after treating someone for a minor (or relatively minor injury), they complain that it wasn't a cool injury (only had a fracture instead of an amputation, for example). I am an emergency medical responder, working with other EMRs and emergency medical technicians in the industrial setting. That just really pisses me off. These are people who are hurt, not cardboard cutouts, people!

KeptInStitches · November 2013

Are you serious, @natswild? That's horrible!

natswild · November 2013

yup, it drives me crazy every time I hear someone say it! It's some of the EMTs who say crap like that, we EMRs are more compassionate then that!!! I'll be an EMT in September when I finish schooling, and I certainly won't be one of them!

southernbelle0915 · November 2013

natswild said:

I judge some of my coworkers, when after treating someone for a minor (or relatively minor injury), they complain that it wasn't a cool injury (only had a fracture instead of an amputation, for example). I am an emergency medical responder, working with other EMRs and emergency medical technicians in the industrial setting. That just really pisses me off. These are people who are hurt, not cardboard cutouts, people!

Yea, not to mention it's a violation of the patient's privacy to discuss their condition/procedures outside the context of medical care. Maybe they'd care of someone complained that they're violating patient privacy for the purpose of gossiping with their pals.

natswild · November 2013

totally agree

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