I'm in a tough siuation on how to involve my brothers girlsfriend in the wedding. I am trying to limit my bridesmaids to 6 because we are trying to have a smaller wedding and that already seems like alot for the ratio of guest we will have. I love her and am very close, she even went to my highschool but is older then me and technically not family yet. Along with my finace's sister and my closest friends I am at 6. He prefers not to have his sisters boyfriend so to make it even we were going to have them act as Ushers.
But I would like to involve her in the day...there have been so many awful comments about personal attendants. My mom and her are very close and I think it would work out great to have her around helping out the day of! I was planning to ask her the same way I do my bridemaids but ask her to be my "right hand lady" and stand by me on my big day. She would be involved in all the prep (hair, makeup, pictures) and I would love it if she wanted to wear a dress that was similar to the bridesmaids but maybe short instead of long!
Any Thoughts?? Please keep the b*tchy comments to your self any constructive feedback is welcome!