My fiance and I have discussed the last name changing and I've decided that I'm definitely keeping mine and he has decided that he may change his. My question is..... how or do we even announce our last names, whatever they end up being? We obviously aren't going to be Mr & Mrs HisLastName, but I've already begun to receive things addressed as Mrs. HisLastName even though the wedding isn't until July!
I don't want to make people uncomfortable and I don't mind being called the wrong name, but I would like to find a polite way to announce what our name(s) will be. If that exists: if not, hopefully people will figure it out when the thank you cards show up with the return address
While I realize this can be a heated topic, I'm not trying to start a mini-war and am just looking for opinions on how to politely inform people. Thanks in advance!