We are paying for a majority of the wedding ourselves, although my parents have also contributed (i'd say about a 75/25% split) His parent's haven't offered anything, which is fine. Honestly I didn't want to accept anything from my parents either but they insisted. Do I then only mention my parents in the invitation? Or can I include his as well, such as "together with their families" I personally don't think it matters who is paying...but that seems to dictate proper etiquette on wording....right?