I'm looking for advice for someone who has been in a similar situations as me. I've read other blogs and generally, the women here have been in the Catholic Church all their life. I never stepped foot in a Catholic Church until last year. Is there a way to make this work? We both serve the same God, we just have different ways of service. Not that either way is wrong or right, I enjoy both services. I'm more about the relationship and he is more about structure and obeying. Again, neither is right or wrong. Is there anyone out there who is open minded enough to help me through this? We have been talking about going to RCA Classes and meeting with his priest after the holidays, but I'm not even sure if we can get married in the Church.