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  • I have an anti-depressant/anti-anxiety cocktail I'm taking + birth control:

    zoloft + topamax + prazosin + yasmin = no sex drive

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  • I hate all of you. It's been almost a month. Before that, it had been almost 2. I have a high sex drive, H has a low one. He is trying to get on testosterone injections, since he has low T, but his doctor gave him the runaround first and now won't tell the insurance company why he needs it so they won't approve it. I'm dying over here.
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    I have an anti-depressant/anti-anxiety cocktail I'm taking + birth control:

    zoloft + topamax + prazosin + yasmin = no sex drive
    I'm on Topamax, too! That's what I take for my migraines.
    ETA: Also, the occasional lorazepam for anxiety


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  • Thanks for all the honesty in this thread ladies-- I thought our 3ish times a week was way low, but looks like there is a big range.  My Sis has been staying over a few times per week (splitting time between me and Dad right now) so that's sort of a drag on our sex life.  Sympathies to everybody currently living with family, that must be tough.

    Also, there are definitely days when Fi is super into and I'm just not.  Those are days he gets a BJ.  I think if he had his way, it would be BJs every day.
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  • Honestly right now not so much. I am 3 months pregnant and the thought of the motion or anything like that makes me feel sick. I am sure once I get past this stage of my morning sickness FI will get some more. 
  • I think that it's whatever suits the two of you.  I have a friend who says she hasn't done the deed in eighteen years.  Her husband is a gorgeous hunk of man, but he has no interest in it.  She thinks this is normal.  They are happy the way things are.  (I certainly wouldn't be!)  To each, their own.
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  • I also thank you for the honesty everyone! @Jcbride2014 my husband would love that but I hate giving bj's lol we've been together going on 6 years and I can count on both hands how many times he's gotten one lol he always gives me crap about it when were with another couple but they are the opposite of us. He gets bj's almost daily and sex hardly ever and complains about that lol
  • I also thank you for the honesty everyone! @Jcbride2014 my husband would love that but I hate giving bj's lol we've been together going on 6 years and I can count on both hands how many times he's gotten one lol he always gives me crap about it when were with another couple but they are the opposite of us. He gets bj's almost daily and sex hardly ever and complains about that lol
    I actually enjoy giving them, surprisingly -- I find it to be like a game hahaha
    However, FI doesn't get them too often anymore. Like the sex thing, work and the rest of our lives tends to just drain me lately, and we're not doing anything as often as we used to :(


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  • Love this thread. We live together every other week. He works 7 days on 7 days off Monday to Monday in another city. I'd say we average 5x during the week he is here (always Monday, Saturday, and Sunday, plus a couple other times thrown in). That is unless his sports teams lose, he takes a full day to recover.
  • @jennja22 lol never tmi when it comes to me lol I think my biggest complaints are that my jaw starts to hurt pretty quickly ( that might have to do more with still having braces for 2.5 years) I can't swallow the after math (makes me gag). And if he does finish the job in my mouth and I have to spit it out, my mouth feels weird and tingly for a bit after. Plus I just can't get into it for him. OH and gag reflex! That's also a negative lol sorry if this was TMI for anyone lol
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