I'm so frustrated right now! My maid of honor (best friend) and matron of honor (sister) are co-hosting my bridal shower on February 22, 2014. My sister lives out of state, but loves planning parties. My best friend is not so much of a planner, but both are paying a decent amount of money for this shower for me. The invitations just went out yesterday and my sister and best friend are NOT communicating with each other -- rather they keep involving me because the two of them are not getting along. I'm so annoyed. My best friend wants nuts on the table, my sister hates the idea and I'm brought into the middle to resolve the issue (this is just ONE of many). What do I do? I love them both and am SO grateful for this shower, but I cannot deal with the stress of their arguing. I've already said I don't want to be involved, but now my sister's feelings are hurt. Ugh!!!