Pretty Annoyed - Bachelorette Rant

PrettyGirlLost · January 2014

LowerEastSiiide said:

Hahaha nice

It's Black Tie Optional, BTW. I know you'll be fine, but some of my relatives. . . yeesh.

EverAfer · January 2014

To the OP,

I naively/stupidly got involved in hosting a baby shower-with 5 other girls. They gave me an estimate for the venue and food. Then I found out there may be more cost. When I realized the main person who had all the details, didn't have a budget set and that the event would cost what some people pay for a wedding, I told them i would pay my portion of food and venue because it's the only cost shared with me and that I approved of. I'm not writing a blank check!

You shouldn't be either. Unfortunately, I do feel you shouldn't have agreed unless you had all the costs up front.

As for the person that withdrew, usually my friends and I plan a weekend away 2-3 times a year, and once you commit, you cover your costs-hotel room, not food you didn't actually eat. From years of girls weekend away, we agree to destination, budget, and date first before we officially book anything. We max at 3 people per bathroom.

I would contact the person planning and state what your budget is and the max you would pay. And that's the size of your check.

LowerEastSiiide · January 2014

I mean if they aren't afraid of sharing the dead skin cells and residual sweat of the middle class - Rent The Runway is always an option. Perhaps they have Maggie Sottero, I hear she's a popular designer amongst the David's Bridal/ Applebee's crowd

PrettyGirlLost · January 2014

LowerEastSiiide said:

I mean if they aren't afraid of sharing the dead skin cells and residual sweat of the middle class - Rent The Runway is always an option. Perhaps they have Maggie Sottero, I hear she's a popular designer amongst the David's Bridal/ Applebee's crowd

Now now, if you are going to knock my wedding dress you can't come.

MuppetOverlord · January 2014

jdluvr06 said:

Wow that is ridiculous. I wouldn't accept a gift that large from someone. Completely silly.

Wha? I think it'd be rude not to. People give what they intend.

LowerEastSiiide · January 2014

Sincerest apologies, make it up to you with mudslides and motzy sticks?

EverAfer · January 2014

LowerEastSiiide said:
Giving a gift that covers the approximate cost if your plate plus a little extra ... Like, if you invite me to a buffet, I might give you $100 for me and my husband total... But, a sit down dinner in a nice hall, I'll give $300

My buffet serves at least 5 entrees (not including sides -from 2 caterers) and a dessert buffet with Colombian coffee or Chai, and open bar.

What will that get me?

I get your point, though it depends on the crowd. But the OP's point is that she asked for the cost and didn't get it, therefore she shouldn't have to write a blank check. It's a matter of principle.

PrettyGirlLost · January 2014

LowerEastSiiide said:

Sincerest apologies, make it up to you with mudslides and motzy sticks?

Scotch and lamb "pops" or scallop crudo and it's a date.

PrettyGirlLost · January 2014

EverAfer said:

Giving a gift that covers the approximate cost if your plate plus a little extra ... Like, if you invite me to a buffet, I might give you $100 for me and my husband total... But, a sit down dinner in a nice hall, I'll give $300
My buffet serves at least 5 entrees (not including sides -from 2 caterers) and a dessert buffet with Colombian coffee or Chai, and open bar. What will that get me?

Will you have that coffee that a cat shit out? I'd give at least $600 for that.

LowerEastSiiide · January 2014

PrettyGirlLost said:

EverAfer said:

LowerEastSiiide said:
Giving a gift that covers the approximate cost if your plate plus a little extra ... Like, if you invite me to a buffet, I might give you $100 for me and my husband total... But, a sit down dinner in a nice hall, I'll give $300
My buffet serves at least 5 entrees (not including sides -from 2 caterers) and a dessert buffet with Colombian coffee or Chai, and open bar.

What will that get me?

Will you have that coffee that a cat shit out? I'd give at least $600 for that.

650

PrettyGirlLost · January 2014

LowerEastSiiide said:

EverAfer said:

Giving a gift that covers the approximate cost if your plate plus a little extra ... Like, if you invite me to a buffet, I might give you $100 for me and my husband total... But, a sit down dinner in a nice hall, I'll give $300
My buffet serves at least 5 entrees (not including sides -from 2 caterers) and a dessert buffet with Colombian coffee or Chai, and open bar. What will that get me?

Will you have that coffee that a cat shit out? I'd give at least $600 for that.
650

700

LowerEastSiiide · January 2014

PrettyGirlLost said:

LowerEastSiiide said:

Sincerest apologies, make it up to you with mudslides and motzy sticks?

Scotch and lamb "pops" or scallop crudo and it's a date.

Ok but I'm going to only have a Sauvignon Blanche and 2 boneless chicken wings - so separate checksies?

grumbledore · January 2014

This took a turn for the weird. I'm serving waffles. How much do I get?

LowerEastSiiide · January 2014

Sauvignon Blanc - damn auto correct made me sound so bourgeois!

PrettyGirlLost · January 2014

LowerEastSiiide said:

LowerEastSiiide said:

Sincerest apologies, make it up to you with mudslides and motzy sticks?

Scotch and lamb "pops" or scallop crudo and it's a date.
Ok but I'm going to only have a Sauvignon Blanche and 2 boneless chicken wings - so separate checksies?

Heeeells naw. I'll comp you. . . this time.

EverAfer · January 2014

I can ask for that just for you. Cat poo coffee, not hygenic for my taste but for you yes.

I'll send you a STD too. Send me your address. Maybe you can tell my guests that's what they should give also.

Or maybe you can just come and enjoy yourself knowing that the B&G just expects you to have a good time and hit the dance floor/ or bar whatever your preference. That's the whole point of weddings right? That a couple gets married and their family and friends are there to celebrate and be happy for them? No strings/wallet attached.

LowerEastSiiide · January 2014

You got the mad hookups - what you doing 'round back of the Applebee's with the manager ?

EverAfer · January 2014

@prettygirllost, I'll take your offer!

PrettyGirlLost · January 2014

LowerEastSiiide said:

You got the mad hookups - what you doing 'round back of the Applebee's with the manager ?

What's an Applebee's? I thought we were going to Alinea? You know those deposits are like non refundable and transferable! I even got a sitter lined up. . .

LowerEastSiiide · January 2014

EverAfer said:
I can ask for that just for you. Cat poo coffee, not hygenic for my taste but for you yes.

I'll send you a STD too. Send me your address. Maybe you can tell my guests that's what they should give also.

Or maybe you can just come and enjoy yourself knowing that the B&G just expects you to have a good time and hit the dance floor/ or bar whatever your preference. That's the whole point of weddings right? That a couple gets married and their family and friends are there to celebrate and be happy for them? No strings/wallet attached.

Gosh have some fun ... Stick with the cat poo coffee, no need to bring it back to a "Full House" learning moment, Danny Tannor... I can hear the slow, sappy music cueing now

PrettyGirlLost · January 2014

EverAfer said:

@prettygirllost, I'll take your offer!

You have to bang the gavel and say "Sold!"

LowerEastSiiide · January 2014

PrettyGirlLost said:

LowerEastSiiide said:

You got the mad hookups - what you doing 'round back of the Applebee's with the manager ?

What's an Applebee's? I thought we were going to Alinea? You know those deposits are like non refundable and transferable! I even got a sitter lined up. . .

I can appreciate a micro gastronomic experience- as long as I can eat my own menu

PrettyGirlLost · January 2014

LowerEastSiiide said:

LowerEastSiiide said:

You got the mad hookups - what you doing 'round back of the Applebee's with the manager ?

What's an Applebee's? I thought we were going to Alinea? You know those deposits are like non refundable and transferable! I even got a sitter lined up. . .
I can appreciate a micro gastronomic experience- as long as I can eat my own menu

Now that would be something to see.

I think they have edible menus at Ruby Tuesdays, so we have back up reservations there in case Alinea disappoints us.

EverAfer · January 2014

PrettyGirlLost said:

EverAfer said:

@prettygirllost, I'll take your offer!

You have to bang the gavel and say "Sold!"

Going once, going twice, SOLD!

By the way, you can come to my bachelorette party, it's a weekend away, you'll know the costs and hosts will supply two cases of wine and a few bottles of vodka. Bring your own juice!

EverAfer · January 2014

LowerEastSiiide said:

EverAfer said:
I can ask for that just for you. Cat poo coffee, not hygenic for my taste but for you yes.

I'll send you a STD too. Send me your address. Maybe you can tell my guests that's what they should give also.

Or maybe you can just come and enjoy yourself knowing that the B&G just expects you to have a good time and hit the dance floor/ or bar whatever your preference. That's the whole point of weddings right? That a couple gets married and their family and friends are there to celebrate and be happy for them? No strings/wallet attached.
Gosh have some fun ... Stick with the cat poo coffee, no need to bring it back to a "Full House" learning moment, Danny Tannor... I can hear the slow, sappy music cueing now

What? You're just starting to grow on me.

PrettyGirlLost · January 2014

EverAfer said:

EverAfer said:

@prettygirllost, I'll take your offer!

You have to bang the gavel and say "Sold!"
Going once, going twice, SOLD! By the way, you can come to my bachelorette party, it's a weekend away, you'll know the costs and hosts will supply two cases of wine and a few bottles of vodka. Bring your own juice!

Do I get my matching attire on site?

EverAfer · January 2014

PrettyGirlLost said:

EverAfer said:

PrettyGirlLost said:

EverAfer said:

@prettygirllost, I'll take your offer!

You have to bang the gavel and say "Sold!"
Going once, going twice, SOLD!

By the way, you can come to my bachelorette party, it's a weekend away, you'll know the costs and hosts will supply two cases of wine and a few bottles of vodka. Bring your own juice!

Do I get my matching attire on site?

Yes, but it's DIY night, you can make your own before going out. I'll have the supplies ready for you

LowerEastSiiide · January 2014

EverAfer said:

LowerEastSiiide said:

EverAfer said:
I can ask for that just for you. Cat poo coffee, not hygenic for my taste but for you yes.

I'll send you a STD too. Send me your address. Maybe you can tell my guests that's what they should give also.

Or maybe you can just come and enjoy yourself knowing that the B&G just expects you to have a good time and hit the dance floor/ or bar whatever your preference. That's the whole point of weddings right? That a couple gets married and their family and friends are there to celebrate and be happy for them? No strings/wallet attached.
Gosh have some fun ... Stick with the cat poo coffee, no need to bring it back to a "Full House" learning moment, Danny Tannor... I can hear the slow, sappy music cueing now
What? You're just starting to grow on me.

That will be my cue to exit ... Night! Will be dreaming of Ruby T's! "Ever After" you're invited, but only if you being MK &Ash. They're my faves- leave that Jodi Sweetin at home, I heard she likes the crank

EverAfer · January 2014

Lol...that can also be arranged.

Amyzen83 · January 2014

I'm sorry but I hav a hard time getting past the part where not wanting to spend hundreds of dollars = being lazy poor crappy friend

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