I am very happy to be marrying my best friend of nearly 30 years. I want to post it on my face book site but every time I have good things to say my ex attacks me via his lawyer. He already brainwashed the children by bribing them. Kids will do anything for fancy electronics and cars. He already took everything, so I have to leave my job and my home just to get away from him. Ladies it wasn't a normal marriage. He made me move away from my friends and family. Wouldn't allow me to make friends and was constantly checking on me. I finally had enough after 16 years. Any advice? Leaving no forwarding address and moving to an island.