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NWR: Just Need To Vent and Maybe Some Advice

FI and I were supposed to be able to get into our new apartment today.  We took the apartment for February 1st.  Now I understand that the furniture isn't being delivered until next Friday, which we told the landlord.  This week and next week we had planned on scrubbing down the apartment and we had some painting to do.  We also wanted to move the bulk of our stuff ourselves so that we don't have to hire a moving company, just rent a truck for a day to move the furniture we do have to save us some money.  Luckily, we are in the situation where we didn't need to move ASAP.

We didn't get the keys until the 2nd, fine, its only a day.  We were also told that as soon as the tenants moved out on January 15th, we would be able to get into the apartment to measure, never happened.  We ordered furniture blindly and purposely had it scheduled for delivery in the middle of the month just in case we needed to switch the furniture, which the place had no problem with us doing, apparently that happens a lot.  When we got there on the 2nd, she explained that she was going to have the floors polyurethaned which would take 24 hours to dry, we wouldn't be able to get in there until Tuesday.  Fine.  The handyman also half-a$$ed the paint job and only painted half of the ceiling, so that needs to get done, as well as clean up a leak that happened during the last snowstorm and fix the paint it ruined.  I texted the landlord today to tell her that we switched PSEG over to our names because we were going to go there tonight to start cleaning.  She tells me that the floors took longer to dry and the handyman didn't come today because of the weather (the weather has been the excuse every time things aren't done when she says they will be done).  I understand that we have had a few more snow storms than usual, but seriously.  She then says that the handyman is going to be working on the apartment tomorrow and Friday and that we can store stuff in the basement.  We don't want to leave our stuff in the basement when both apartments have access to it.

And speaking of painting, she had offered to paint the apartment in the colors we wanted.  Great, awesome, we even fought with her saying no we will take care of it.  She left us one wall in the dining room primed because we want to make it an accent wall so we are going to take care of that ourselves.  She then told us that painting was getting too costly so the bedroom is the same as the rest of house.  Ok, I understand that painting can get costly, but she could have mentioned it.  We would have told her to just prime the bedroom and we would paint it, but now we have to prime and paint.  I know this part seems petty, but I prefer people to be upfront and honest.

We just feel like we are getting the run around.  I've been very vocal with our parents about our displeasure, and my dad said we can't take it out on the landlord, she just has a crappy handyman (who painted the crown molding, who paints crown molding LOL).  FI is going there after work today, I'm staying away because I'm so fired up that I've been looking at other apartments.  He is going to talk to her about all this and we will take it from there, but even he is ready to walk away.

Are we wrong for wanting to walk away?  I'm even willing to leave the security and first month's rent.
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Re: NWR: Just Need To Vent and Maybe Some Advice

  • I wouldn't give her my deposit and first's month rent. But I would ask her to prorate next month's rent bc I'm not paying for a week that I couldn't use the apartment. That sucks!
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  • She has had the deposit since December when we signed the lease.  She also received February's rent on the 2nd when we received the keys, only one set of keys, but whatever. She did take $100 off February's rent, but essentially we are losing a week.  Its just so frustrating.  FI said that if we walk, she is going to give us back our money because she is in breech of the contract because the apartment wasn't ready for February 1st.
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  • I agree you should walk away, but you should get your money back first. There are too many problems here that would worry me. She doesn't seem reliable or honest, and those are two qualities that are SO important in a landlord. 

    I'd have your FI say to her, "Based on your breach of our contract, we want our money back, and we'll be finding another place to rent."
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  • @HisGirlFriday13 I just copied your response to FI.  He asked if I wanted to walk and I told him to see how the conversation goes but if he isn't happy then I'm ok with saying we aren't taking the apartment.  And I also told him if we do walk, not to leave without a check.
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  • Good luck! I hope it works out for you. I'd be furious.
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  • Me too.  Like I said, I get that the furniture isn't being delivered until next week, but this week there were things that we needed to take care of, like cleaning and finishing painting, especially since the bedroom we need to redo.  FI is definitely the one to handle this.  Sometimes I can be a pushover and other times I just fly off the handle LOL.  He is pretty well tempered, but he also has tact, whereas I could be flipping.
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  • Huge red flags. I'd bail.

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  • Small Update:  There are three cigarette butts in the toilet, he took a photo of them because its supposed to be a non-smoking apartment.  There is also what looks to be like pink tape on a wall in the living room and in the 2nd bedroom that when he went to peel it off, it started taking the paint off.  He had to hang up quickly because I think the landlord was coming.  He still likes the place and so do I, but none of the other work was done.

    I was ok with her polyurathaning the floors, it protects them, but we still should have been able to get into the apartment yesterday, or today at the latest.  Now its Friday, like I stated above.  Hopefully he calls me back soon.
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  • I would walk.  If the lease says you take possession 2/1, she's in breach.  $100 off rent doesn't make up for that.

    If this is how the landlord acts now, while you still have the option to walk, how do you think she'd be 6 months from now when walking involves moving?  How long is it going to take to get the leak fixed after you live there?  If she is this negligent now, it's just going to get worse, and you'll end up moving again in a year.  
  • I would walk. When FI and I moved into our current space, we were given a move-in date of 8/15 (worked out great as our other lease ended 8/31, and like you, we were moving ourselves). The super in our complex was brand, spanking new but he made sure the previous tenants were out by 7/31 and every bit of maintenance and repair was done to our unit well before our move-in date. Granted, we do live in a fairly large complex, but not all the work was being done by the maintenance crew employed by the complex as they were busy doing regular maintenance, trash collection, etc. It doesn't take a lot of time to hire a contractor to get things taken care of, and most landlords will have several that they use at any given time. If your landlord is giving you such a hard time now, I can't imagine what it will be like when you really need something done!
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  • Yep, walk away.  This sounds like the landlord will not follow through when you need things later.  We've had two unreliable landlords (financially irresponsible to boot, never money to pay for necessary stuff) and it's a huge headache.  Better to walk away now.  Get your money back.
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  • I would walk too....what you are going through is ridiculous. Keep us posted.
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  • Update:  FI had a nice sit down with her after he looked over everything.  She wasn't happy with a few things that she saw that the handyman must have done today, which he said he wasn't coming today because of the weather.  She did apologize.  She said we can start moving in tomorrow, but that the handyman will still be in and out because he has to fix a few things for us.  That's fine.  I really want to get in there and clean and paint what we need to before we start moving our belongings in.  FI said he felt a lot better after the talk.  My dad said she probably figured that since neither of us have to be out on a deadline from where we are now and that our furniture is getting delivered next week, she probably just figured she didn't have to rush.  He said that it probably would have been a different story if we had to be in there on the 1st or 2nd.

    Thanks for all your help ladies!  Aside from the wedding advice, all of you are awesome and this community is fantastic!  I definitely plan on sticking around after the wedding.
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  • Update:  FI had a nice sit down with her after he looked over everything.  She wasn't happy with a few things that she saw that the handyman must have done today, which he said he wasn't coming today because of the weather.  She did apologize.  She said we can start moving in tomorrow, but that the handyman will still be in and out because he has to fix a few things for us.  That's fine.  I really want to get in there and clean and paint what we need to before we start moving our belongings in.  FI said he felt a lot better after the talk.  My dad said she probably figured that since neither of us have to be out on a deadline from where we are now and that our furniture is getting delivered next week, she probably just figured she didn't have to rush.  He said that it probably would have been a different story if we had to be in there on the 1st or 2nd.

    Thanks for all your help ladies!  Aside from the wedding advice, all of you are awesome and this community is fantastic!  I definitely plan on sticking around after the wedding.
    That's all well and good, but it's still a breach of contract. And it's still worrying (to me, at least). She took advantage of your kindness and your relaxed attitude.

    I'd still be worried, but that's just me.
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  • I'm still a little uneasy, don't get me wrong.  I guess only time will tell.  She's really sweet, but her handyman seems to be a bit of the problem as well.  Hopefully things will be better from here on out.  I don't want to have to move in a year.  I want to stay until we buy a house.  And I know that we won't find this kind of space for what we are paying elsewhere.
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