Hi ladies. Please help me settle an argument with DH. We were invited to a wedding that says on the invitation that its Black Tie. However, from talking about the wedding with the couple, I know that the dinner will be served family style. There are other elements that lead me to believe that this isn't really Black Tie but that the bride is trying to fancy it up. DH is insisting that he has to rent a tux for this but I don't really want to spend the money to do that knowing that the wedding isn't truly Black Tie. What do you ladies think?