http://news.yahoo.com/animal-lover-appalled-camouflage-wedding-050112316.html
I almost spit out my diet coke when Dear Abby mentioned being able to re-wear the dress. However, this is a good example of when friends and loved ones won't tell you when they are offended. The author took the time to write to Dear Abby hoping to get a response before just calling up the couple and discussing her feelings about their wedding. So, for those lurkers out there that think their friends and family won't be offended by a choice "because it's what you want!", I suggest digging a bit further to ensure that you are not being rude to your guests.