Little back story/relevant info: My husband and I are LDS. We want to be sealed in the temple. For irrelevant reasons, we were unable to do that when we got married. We are planning on getting sealed later. We don't have a timeline for when that'll happen yet, but we know it will sometime. My parents have never been loving and did not attend my civil ceremony. We still don't have the greatest relationship with them.
Now my problem: I've just recently been thinking about this and since the date isn't decided yet, the decision doesn't have to be made anytime soon. For most sealings, you only invite your nearest and dearest. So for most that would be: parents, grandparents, any adult siblings, close aunts and uncles and maybe a close friend or two. I'm probably only going to invite two sets of aunts and uncles, my grandparents and that'll probably be it. My husband will likely invite his grandmother, one of his aunts and uncle, and one of his brother and SIL. My siblings aren't old enough to come yet, depending on when we do it they might be, so I'll figure them out if they end up being old enough at the time. Now my parents are the issue. I'm not sure whether to invite them or not. They've never been loving, never been supportive; as my husband pointed out to me, they were more caretakers to me growing up than parents. I'm worried I'll regret it if I don't invite them. We did invite them to our civil ceremony but they didn't come. While that hurt me at first, I figured they wouldn't and when the day came I was sad for a bit but barely noticed it for most of the time. I actually think I was able to feel more happy and free without them there (they've always been controlling and still criticize my behavior if they hear that I'm doing something they don't approve of).
My husband supports me either way and, as I said, no decision needs to be made. What would you do in this situation?