So my mother told me she planned to have me stay at her home the night before the wedding. The problem with this is that she is a very heavy smoker. The smell of smoke staying with me is one concern, but also I feel sick like I have a cold after spending time at her house. I tried to fib and told her my MOH planned a girls night with all the bridesmaids at a hotel for the night before, but my mother than said she has room for all us at the house. I fessed up and told her how I felt about the cigarette smell and now she is super mad at me. I have tried to tell her that normally the smoke would not bother me, but this is a special day and I dont want to feel like I have a cold on my wedding day. I have said sorry several times but she is still mad. Was I wrong to tell her no? Am I doing something wrong? Ideas to smooth this out, because what I'm doing is not working.