My bridesmaids need to stop trying to help me because they are getting on my last nerve. I know their intentions are good,and they just want to help, but sending me links to venues that are triple my budget is not helpful. My bridesmaids are my 3 best friends. I told them ahead of time what the budget is. Thats why I dont get why they keep emailing me links to dress boutiques and wedding venues that cost half of my salary! When I tell them that the location is out of budget they say things like "But it was just so pretty I wanted you to see it". NO! I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THAT! I am on a tight budget. $8,000 for EVERYTHING including my dress, rings, everything. FI and I are working hard to stay within our budget and host our guests well. Nobody will leave hungry, thirsty, or opening their wallets for anything. That's our vision for our wedding. To achieve that we are forgoing fancy centerpieces, glamorous venues, traditional wedding cake, stuff like that. I have explained this to my girls so I dont get what they dont get about it. I'm trying to keep from going Bridezilla because I know they are just trying to help but GOODNESS! JUST STOP!