I'm in a wedding this June. It's out of state. I explained to the bride that because of my own wedding plans and time off, I can't take any vacation. The wedding is on Sunday at 2:30 so the rehearsal is Saturday. I was planning to fly out either Friday night or Saturday morning and fly back late Sunday night or early Monday. I don't really want to pay for a hotel room (this wedding is already super expensive, with the bride not asking our budget and picking out expensive shoes, dress, plus the $80 each we have to put in for the bachelorette party and shower/wedding gifts) on Friday night since I already do for Saturday. So I asked the bride how soon she needed me there on Saturday to see if a flight in would work. She said she didn't know when the rehearsal would be. This was several months ago. I asked when the wedding would probably end. She didn't know. Time has passed, and flights are getting pricier and pricer and every time I ask when things are she gets irritated and says she doesn't know and then reminds me that I better be finding my own rides to and from the airport. I'm seriously getting overwhelmed by the price of this wedding. Am I allowed to be annoyed? What would you do?