When we met with our officiant last month (our first meeting with her), we explained that due to my fiance's preference to keep our outdoor ceremony non-religious, we were hoping to find our own "tradition" to do during the ceremony (in lieu of unity candles, blessings etc.) The sand ceremony is on the table, but she actually suggested something that I though was really cool, a wine ceremony. I guess each of us will take a different type of wine (in seperate glasses) and combine the two into one glass, mixing the wines together. She said it will have the same meaning behind the sand ceremony, that once the two wines are mixed, there is no undoing it. Has anyone ever hear of/seen this done before? I'm intrigued!