Sooo, here's my story. My fiance and I are both in our mid-twenties and both have pretty decent jobs. We have a lot of the things we need and if something comes up that we need we normally just go out and get it. We both felt kind of silly registering for gifts because there wasn't a whole lot to register for!
That being said, I really do not like to be the center of attention and get anxiety even from the thought of it. I know I'm going to have to do the big wedding thing, because my fiance's family is HUGE so there is no way around it. But, because of our lack of really needing anything one would normally get at a shower plus my anxiety issues, I really do not want a bridal shower.
I am the only daughter in my family, so my mother does not like this idea at all. Also, I've heard that my future mother-in-law wants to throw me a shower back in her home town, which I am not even willing to consider.
Is this seriously rude of me, or do I have the option to choose not to have a shower?