So my mother and sister (also MOH) have offered to throw me a bachelorette party. I am super excited and so grateful!
There has however become and issue with the guest list.
One of my sisters good friends lives with my mom and my sister. She is also my brothers ex girlfriend up until last weekend and now they are back on again. I like this girl very much she is sweet and my family loves her. I however did cut her from the guest list at the wedding for two reasons, one she is my brother's ex and the last time she was invited it caused drama with him and his girlfriend at the time and two we have had to cut many people and I am not very close to her. She is 8 years younger than me and although I like her she is just my sister's friend in my eyes.
I figured when we cut her from the list that if my brother was back together with her she could come, or if my sister (single) is still single and would prefer a female friend to come as her plus one then she could invite her, but she would not an invitation otherwise.
Well my mom called to ask for my friends information for the planning and then she asked if I mind inviting Bre, because they have been talking about all the plans at home and want her to be included and want my sister to have a friend there.
The issues are:
1.I know if she comes to the Bach Party I will be obligated to invite her to the wedding.
2.In a selfish way I was hoping my sister would be spending her time with me. I know she is younger, but she is my MOH and I wanted it to be a special time with her.
3. I wanted a very small group of girls WP, my mother, and 2 other girlfriends. My experience has been more people more drama lol.
I really don't want to be rude to my mom or the girl, but I really didn't want to invite her either.