So FMIL has decided to throw me a shower. Which I am completely appreciate of. However, she sent out Facebook invites without checking our wedding guest list. As a result, a large amount of the people she invited either aren't invited to the wedding or I don't know them. Myself and FI are concerned that some people may now assume they are invited to the wedding and that this seems gift grabby. He spoke to her about it and she doesn't seem to agree. What's done is done. The question is
How would you ladies handle this situation on shower day? Especially for those who will likely now assume that they're invited to the wedding. Invites will have already been sent out by shower time. Help,