Okay. I need some advice here. My fiancee and I are getting married in three months. While our families have met, there haven't been any organized gatherings for them to really get to know one another (something I don't see as an issue, because there's plenty of time for that later). My fiancee's family and my family both struggle with finances, my family to a greater extent. Due to this, my FH (future husband)'s family is paying for the food at the reception, which is of course a big chunk of the total wedding cost. My parents/family will cover the reception venue costs and the photography, with my FH and I taking care of everything else. Before my family had budgeted those costs and realized that they could afford those things, my FH's family made a stink about the fact that my family wasn't contributing to the wedding and even told my fiancee that they couldn't afford to contribute because they had too many expenses in the future. Something that wasn't an issue until my FH's father and my father had spoken and my father told my FH's father that they couldn't help out. My FH worked HARD to raise money for both of his sisters' weddings and this hurt both of us really badly. They later told us they COULD help out and my FH asked me to have my parents cover something, anything, so his parents wouldn't feel like they were doing it alone (which they weren't in the first place *eye roll*). Now, THREE MONTHS before my wedding, my FH's father tells my FH that my family isn't reaching out to my FH's family and that its worrying them because what kind of parents do I really have that they aren't concerned with knowing their future inlaws? I AM SO FED UP. There are more stories, but those are the main ones that demonstrate my FH's family's mentality. My family is the *bad* family because we aren't hunky dory and Brady Bunch like his family is. We have issues and things we have to work out (my father and I aren't always on good terms) and because of that, my FH's family is on a high horse and keeps behaving as if my family is lesser and dysfunctional and 'not even a real family'. Apparently because my parents don't call his parents, my family isn't 'interested' in the wedding. My parents are helping as best they can whenever I need them and this high horse nonsense is really about to trip me out. It's causing problems for me and my FH and this needs to stop! How do I deal with this?? Especially when my FH listens to all this bull and then tries to get me to change things so my family seems more 'appealing'? Part of my problem is my FH's refusal to just correct them when they're wrong and fix this shit before it blows up. Help! Advice! Anything!